
The Book of 3 John
Book Facts
Jesus as the embodiment of truth and love, calling His followers to imitate His character (Psalm 25:10; 3 John 11)⁹; Jesus as the Good Shepherd who cares for His people through faithful under-shepherds (Ezekiel 34:23; 3 John 5-8)¹⁰
What Makes 3 John Essential for Understanding Christian Leadership and Hospitality?
Third John, like its companion 2 John, is among the shortest books in the New Testament, containing only fourteen verses that address crucial issues of church leadership and Christian fellowship.¹¹ Written by the Apostle John, identifying himself as "the elder," this intensely personal letter was composed during the same period as his other epistles, approximately 85-95 AD, when he was overseeing churches throughout Asia Minor.¹² The letter is addressed specifically to Gaius, a beloved Christian whom John commends for his faithfulness and hospitality, though we know little about Gaius beyond what this epistle reveals.¹³ The historical context involves a conflict over traveling missionaries and teachers, where a church leader named Diotrephes was refusing to receive John's representatives and even expelling church members who showed them hospitality.¹⁴ John writes to encourage Gaius in his faithful ministry while addressing the problematic leadership of Diotrephes and commending a man named Demetrius.¹⁵ The letter provides valuable insights into early church governance, the challenges of itinerant ministry, and the personal relationships that sustained apostolic Christianity.¹⁶
3 John Commentaries

1 and 2 Peter, 1, 2, and 3 John, Jude
Daryl Charles

1,2,3 John
Daniel L. Akin

1-3 John
W. Hall Harris III

The Epistles of John
I. Howard Marshall

The Letters of John
Colin G. Kruse
How Does 3 John Illustrate the Contrast Between Faithful and Unfaithful Church Leadership?
The epistle presents a striking contrast between different models of Christian leadership through three distinct characters: Gaius (the faithful supporter), Diotrephes (the self-serving leader), and Demetrius (the commended minister).¹⁷ John praises Gaius for his commitment to truth and his generous hospitality toward traveling ministers, noting that such support makes believers "fellow workers for the truth."¹⁸ The letter reveals Gaius as a model of Christian character who demonstrates love through practical service, supporting gospel workers even though they were strangers to him.¹⁹ In sharp contrast, Diotrephes represents the danger of prideful, authoritarian leadership that seeks preeminence rather than service, rejecting apostolic authority and maliciously gossiping against those who oppose him.²⁰ John's description of Diotrephes reveals behaviors that destroy Christian fellowship: love of prominence, rejection of legitimate authority, malicious speech, refusal of hospitality, and exclusion of faithful church members.²¹ The apostle concludes by commending Demetrius, who has received universal testimony for his good character and alignment with truth.²²
Key Themes in 3 John:
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Faithful Christian hospitality and support for ministry (3 John 5-8)
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Walking in truth as the source of apostolic joy (3 John 3-4)
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The contrast between humble service and prideful leadership (3 John 9-10)
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Supporting fellow workers in the gospel (3 John 8)
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The danger of seeking preeminence in the church (3 John 9)
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Following good examples rather than evil ones (3 John 11)
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The importance of good testimony and character (3 John 12)
Why Does 3 John Remain Crucial for Contemporary Church Governance and Ministry Support?
Third John's enduring relevance lies in its practical guidance for church leadership, ministry support, and the maintenance of healthy Christian fellowship in local congregations.²³ The letter addresses timeless issues that continue to challenge churches today: the proper exercise of authority, the importance of supporting gospel ministry, and the danger of leaders who seek personal prominence rather than serving Christ and His people.²⁴ John's commendation of Gaius provides a model for generous Christian hospitality that supports missionaries and ministers, while his condemnation of Diotrephes warns against authoritarian leadership styles that damage church unity and hinder gospel work.²⁵ The epistle's emphasis on walking in truth demonstrates that authentic Christian living must be evidenced by practical love and support for those engaged in ministry, making theological orthodoxy concrete through generous action.²⁶ Throughout church history, 3 John has served as a foundational text for understanding proper church governance, the relationship between local and apostolic authority, and the character qualities essential for Christian leadership.²⁷ For contemporary believers, the letter provides crucial wisdom for evaluating church leaders, supporting missionary work, and maintaining the balance between doctrinal fidelity and generous hospitality that characterizes healthy Christian communities.²⁸
FAQs
Who was Gaius, and why did John write to him specifically?+
Gaius was a faithful Christian known for his hospitality and support of traveling ministers. John wrote to encourage him in his ministry of supporting gospel workers and to address the problematic leadership situation involving Diotrephes.²⁹
What was Diotrephes doing wrong according to 3 John?+
Diotrephes was seeking preeminence in the church, rejecting John's authority, speaking maliciously about the apostles, refusing hospitality to traveling ministers, and expelling church members who showed such hospitality.³⁰
How does 3 John relate to modern missionary support?+
The letter establishes the principle that supporting gospel workers makes believers "fellow workers for the truth." This provides biblical foundation for modern missionary support and demonstrates the importance of partnership in gospel ministry.³¹
What can church leaders learn from the contrast between Gaius and Diotrephes?+
Church leaders can learn the importance of humble service over seeking prominence, supporting rather than hindering gospel work, and exercising authority in ways that build up rather than tear down the church community.³²
How should churches handle conflicts over authority like the one described in 3 John?+
Churches should prioritize biblical truth, support legitimate spiritual authority, practice church discipline when necessary, and ensure that leadership serves the gospel rather than personal ambition, following the principles John demonstrates in addressing Diotrephes.³³
Citations & References
¹ D.A. Carson and Douglas J. Moo, An Introduction to the New Testament (Zondervan, 2005), 676-678.
² Andreas J. Köstenberger, A Theology of John's Gospel and Letters (Zondervan, 2009), 549-551.
³ Karen H. Jobes, 1, 2, and 3 John (Zondervan, 2014), 235-238.
⁴ David E. Aune, The New Testament in Its Literary Environment (Westminster John Knox, 1987), 221-222.
⁵ Colin G. Kruse, The Letters of John (Eerdmans, 2000), 255-257.
⁶ Robert W. Yarbrough, 1-3 John (Baker Academic, 2008), 370-372.
⁷ Daniel L. Akin, 1, 2, 3 John (B&H Academic, 2001), 245-247.
⁸ Gary M. Burge, Letters of John (NIV Application Commentary, Zondervan, 1996), 315-317.
⁹ John R.W. Stott, The Letters of John (Eerdmans, 1988), 225-227.
¹⁰ I. Howard Marshall, The Epistles of John (Eerdmans, 1978), 275-277.
¹¹ Carson and Moo, Introduction to the New Testament, 677.
¹² Köstenberger, Theology of John's Gospel and Letters, 550.
¹³ Jobes, 1, 2, and 3 John, 236-237.
¹⁴ Kruse, Letters of John, 256.
¹⁵ Yarbrough, 1-3 John, 371.
¹⁶ Akin, 1, 2, 3 John, 246.
¹⁷ Stott, Letters of John, 228-230.
¹⁸ Burge, Letters of John, 316-318.
¹⁹ Marshall, Epistles of John, 278-280.
²⁰ Kruse, Letters of John, 260-262.
²¹ Yarbrough, 1-3 John, 375-377.
²² Akin, 1, 2, 3 John, 250-252.
²³ Burge, Letters of John, 320-322.
²⁴ Stott, Letters of John, 235-237.
²⁵ Jobes, 1, 2, and 3 John, 245-247.
²⁶ Köstenberger, Theology of John's Gospel and Letters, 554-556.
²⁷ Marshall, Epistles of John, 285-287. ²⁸ Kruse, Letters of John, 265-267.
²⁹ Carson and Moo, Introduction to the New Testament, 678.
³⁰ Stott, Letters of John, 232.
³¹ Burge, Letters of John, 318.
³² Yarbrough, 1-3 John, 376.
³³ Akin, 1, 2, 3 John, 251.
3 John Commentaries

1 and 2 Peter, 1, 2, and 3 John, Jude
Daryl Charles

1,2,3 John
Daniel L. Akin

1-3 John
W. Hall Harris III

The Epistles of John
I. Howard Marshall

The Letters of John
Colin G. Kruse